Today I had a session with a highly sensitive lady who changed her appointment to a videoskype session. Since she experienced several coaching and rebirthing sessions in my practice in The Hague she felt at ease with the idea. And the session was awesome. Especially the breathing-and-expressing-the-sound-of-her-soul part. It connected her with her emotional body and during and afterwards she was able to connect with the pain. She let her tears roll down her face.
Along this intense emotional process she is developing herself as a relax and relief masseuse. At the moment she is building up her practice. As I told another highly sensitive lady coming in for her first session today. When you choose to be guided by me you choose for inner growth and putting everything you learn into practice. These are two processes which are intertwined. When you feel relieved by having expressed sadness, anger and fear you create more space for self-love and the need to do what feels good.
So back to the sweet lady who is building up her practice as a relax and relief masseuse. She got into a burnout two years ago. Since then she is out of work and before she started coaching and rebirthing with me she had reached a very low point. She felt lost. During the sessions we spoke about her family and the culture she is from. In the family she grew up were a lot of fights. Both parents lost control often and this resulted in physical abuse of the kids. She has a strong and loving soul. While many of her siblings and cousins act out their frustrations on there children and their partners she turned her frustrations into actions out of love to support her family.
The negative energy she had absorbed from her parents and family was turned inwards. She overthinks, feels insecure and is afraid to show her true self.
So this is the main focus of our sessions: to release all sadness, anger and fear and refill her with lots of self-love. And while she is going through this intense, but satisfying process life reflects her inner growth. She feels secure enough to ask for a compensation for her massages even though she is the stage of practicing and gaining experience. She is conscious of negative family-energy and is still finding a way to distance herself from it. She is working on an intimate relationship with her partner.
In conclusion: she is on her way to experiencing a 100% of self-love. And on this journey she is also on her way to build the life she desires.
Yeah! She is doing it.
For more information on my work as a life coach for highly sensitive people please visit my website: Orchid of Life ~ HSP Coaching & Rebirthing