I welcome abundance into my daily life

Today is the last day of the 21 Days Abundance Challenge by Deepak Chopra. It was fun and it has definitely changed my abundance mindset in a positive way. For one I decided to go through my closet to decide which items I wanted to keep and which I wanted to give a way. It felt amazing to keep the items in which I feel 100% comfortable. And the items I gave away put an enormous smile on a friend’s face. Fantastic.

Another outcome is that I feel happy and grateful on a daily basis with all I have; material and non-material. I’ve always felt cheerful and grateful, but the challenge made me tune in more with all the beauty that surrounds me and boosted these feelings. Yesterday I decided to participate in a 3-day training on Mental Space Psychology by Lucas Derks, a dear friend of mine. It feels so good to see something, want it and seconds after to decide to do it. Feeling that type of freedom. Wow!!

Right after I made this decision the thought crossed my mind that this investment in myself will come back to me multiplied 7 times.

And to top the whole abundance-adventure of: today @arnoldbalde and I went to Elysium in Bleiswijck; a sauna complex. We enjoyed it fully, what a relaxing and energizing day we had. Being good, kind and treat ourselves; at times a big challenge, but now finally it feels good.

So yes, I fully agree to a life in which we live in the present with no regrets, thanking every one who has had an impact on my life (positive or negative; in the end it’s all positive if we are able to draw the lessons from the experiences) and cherising and enjoying all sparks of abundance that surrounds us.

With Com-Passion,
Chungmei 💕🌿✨

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Express anger to create space to feel love, compassion and inner peace

Somehow my coaching & rebirthing practice has theme weeks. This week it was all about emerging anger.

Clients were telling me stories filled with uncovered anger and I grabbed it with both hands. I laid out for them how connecting with anger in order to express it can diminish fear, even to the point that fear evaporates.

I just finished a session with a client who I guided with social panorama. This technique is based on neuro linguistic programming and similar to family constellations but with the difference that it’s only based on your emotional imaginary map and the presence of others is not needed.

This technique is very effective to create emotional change within all relationships. This week I’ve seen clients expressing their anger towards a bullying older sister, an emotional distant parent and inauthentic parent.

Expressing anger in a safe environment lowers stress levels caused by fear and creates space to feel more love, compassion and inner peace.

With Com-Passion,
Chungmei Cheng

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We’re moving within The Hague

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We have great news to share. We are moving to another apartment. This time it will be an apartment closer to the primary school of my daughter. Our son will start at the same school in February 2020. The move will be on Sunday 23rd of June. Afterwards I will take a week off and on Monday 1st of July the coaching practice opens on the new location.

This photo was sent to me by one of my former clients who received the news through the Dutch Orchid of Life newsletter. When she received it she was driving in one of the nearby streets while she actually lives in Rotterdam at the moment. Fantastic.

My webmaster wrote me that we would be neighbours. The door would be always open for a cup of tea and it would make our lives easier to discuss website related stuff. Awesome.

And moms of many of my daughters friends reacted enthusiastic because playdates would be easier to organise. My partner’s best friend will be living around the corner.

I feel truly blessed with so many people around me who are dear to me, each and every one of them.

With Com-Passion,

Chungmei
HSP Coach & Rebirther

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Rebirthing: the body will never lie

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It’s amazing that an introduction of only 15 minutes to the conscious connected breathing gives me more information about someone’s true health than talking for an hour. 

Last week I spoke to a young lady who works for the government. She is doing a trainee ship. When she was a few months in she noticed an extreme tiredness. As of December last year she got familiar with high sensitivity and felt embraced by everything she read. Her first session with me took her further into her emotional journey. 

First of all, as long as she remembers, she feels different compared to others. Now, forming part of a group of trainees who are guided to embark on managerial positions within the government, she feels lonely and has the tendency to hide. Why? 

  • Because she prefers to work in the quiet rooms;
  • The canteen is too busy for her, she rather walks outside;
  • She doesn’t drink alcohol which excludes her from the weekly informal meetings;
  • Colleagues are gossiping and judging about her way of being.

In short: she finds it hard to connect and mingle while the world around her is noisy, demanding and full of expectations. 

During the coaching I shared many stories which helped her to feel affirmed in who she is. She is not strange. She is a feeling being. We will work towards embracing her high sensitivity and how she can find ways to feel more connected with her surroundings.

After our talk I guided her through 15 minutes of conscious connected breathing. By feeling the heaviness and tension in her arms during the breathing process she was moved to share one of her main life events. During a funeral at the age of 14 she wasn’t able to move her arm to eat soup. Since then she developed a fear around her arm not functioning.

This was a psycho somatic experience which wasn’t dealt with properly. At the moment she isn’t consciously feeling the underlying emotions of her arm falling out in certain situations. During our coaching & rebirthing trajectory we will also work through this trauma. 

Breath with me?

With Com-Passion,
Chungmei Cheng

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I just love breakthrough sessions!

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I just love breakthrough sessions!

Especially when it concerns the emotional development of someone who hasn’t been sleeping for years now due to high levels of tension in the body. In today’s session; the 27th coaching and rebirthing session, the client was finally able to continue the conscious connected breathing without any interruptions.

Client felt so fed up by how slow her healing process was coming along. After our talk about whether is better to breathe motivated by frustration and anger or love and compassion conclusion was it’s good to give room to the frustration and anger, because it will lower fear levels.

Anger is thé emotion which will help you overcome your fears. Hence client breathed with the motivation of being fed up. This was very helpful to open up the chest and get connected with the underlying tensions. Inner child of the client cried from trauma, these were healing tears. Later on the adult client cried out of hope, relieve and happiness of having reached this phase in the healing process.

Breath with me?

With Com-Passion,
Chungmei Cheng

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Guided meditations via FB Live. Breathe!

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Just received a client who was present at my 1st guided meditation via FB Live. It helped him to relax after a day full of calls and meetings. He put all upcoming data in his agenda. Yeah!! I feel enormously motivated to give these guided meditations and…even continue after this May project.

This idea of giving guided meditations through FB Live popped up somewhere last year, in February 2018. During 2018 my creative workgoal was to speak about my work through FB Live. Every month I spoke about a different topic in relationship to high sensitivity.

This was my focus and hence I didn’t have the mental, emotional and physical space to take action upon this idea of giving guided meditations through fb live. Furthermore I was busy tackling my fear of driving a car.

Now I am experiencing a new kind of freedom.

🌿 I’m into 1.5 year of car driving experience and I love to drive.

🌿 I easily put myself in front of a camera to speak about my work. I’ve even spoken in English and Spanish on Intstagram TV. (it’s not perfect, but what the h***)

🌿 My coaching and rebirthing practice is going well.

🌿 Freedom because of my youngest child is growing up. He is literally stepped out of his diaper phase and is talking lots.

By processing all fear in relationship to putting myself out there I’ve learned that there is a time and space for everything we want to do. I fully agree and feel the following quote by Rumi “The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear”. In many aspects of life I’ve become quieter and I have listened to my hunches. I’ve even let them guide me. Only sometimes the fear is too big or there is a lack in time and energy to start new projects.

But when an idea comes back around and around than you simply have to bow for it and act without thinking.

And that’s what I did with regards to these guided meditations. I’ve committed myself to be present every Tuesday evening until Summer holidays. What definitely motivates me is that current clients tell me they will be there and it is so much fun to bring people together. Afterwards I will evaluate and feel what’s up next.

Breath with me?

This is the facebook page: Hooggevoeligheid en intuïtie. (high sensitivity and intuition) It’s in Dutch, but I mentioning it anyway, because I have an Italian friend who takes fitness classes in Polish even though she doesn’t understand any of it 😉

With Com-Passion,
Chungmei Cheng

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