Connect to your Soul’s Purpose

In this video I’m sharing my mission as a coach & rebirther for highly sensitive people. I have already been working for 16 years and throughout the years my mission got clearer and sharper. Let highly sensitive people embrace themselves fully, including their innate talents and qualities, in order to share these with the world around them (and beyond) to soften and lift up hearts.

Up until Tuesday 14th of July I’ve planned video’s in English on my YouTube channel. They will air at 8.30pm Dutch Time. Click here to subscribe to my channel

The past 4 weeks I’ve been working on Dutch video content. I have been interviewing former clients, acquaintances and work relationships on topics such as working from the heart, art and creative processes and personal development. For many years now I’ve been stimulating the people I work with to share their story, their talents. And 4 weeks ago I had a light-bulb moment: these people can share their stories through me in a one-on-one conversation/ interview via video calling.

So I have been meeting them on videoskype. I press record and then we start talking. There is no editing involved. I don’t have time for that to be honest. This means you receive it raw in the flesh, as good as it gets, exactly how we have reacted in the NOW. 

Concerning the intelligent lockdown in The Netherlands and my work. My work continued as usual except for a few changes here and there and much more contact with clients to talk over in what way we could continue best. Today a breakthrough took place: I’ve managed to agree on a date and time with a client who decided to wait until it was safe enough (based on his worldview) to meet up again. End of May it is. Yeah!

Keep well, keep safe and do every freaking thing possible to stay healthy. Boost your immune system with good food, exercise and lots of laughter. 

With Com-Passion,
Chungmei Cheng

Be who you are, not who the world wants you to be
Website: Orchid of Life ~ HSP Coaching & Rebirthing

 

 

14 characteristics of Highly Sensitive People

When I give lectures on high sensitivity I have been asked many times if I am a highly sensitive person. Yes, I am! Below you’ll get an impression of how the characteristics of highly sensitive people have played out in different areas of my life.

The characteristics of highly sensitive people:

1. Have great imagination
Well yes, I affirm that I have imagination, but to a certain level. What I mean by this is that I am able to visualise, for example, my business goals or when I’m preparing for lectures or training. I do find I have imagination when I play with my kids and make up stories out of thin air. But a great imagination would be when I look at my youngest and he is able to picture and fantasise a whole story about dinosaurs or rescuing animals as a fire men in our house.

2. Have great intellectual abilities
I do have intellectual abilities, but the way I learn is on a kinaesthetic level which means that I learn by doing in stead of by listening, “heated” intellectual interaction/ discussions and reading about theories. I have a strong need to put in practice bits and pieces of information.

3. Are creative
I am creative when it comes to cooking, furnishing my house, sharing information about high sensitivity on social media, how I guide the coaching and rebirthing sessions, wrapping presents, dancing and playing with the kids.

4. Have a curious mind
I have a curious and open mind. Curiosity finds his way through chitchats with strangers in supermarkets, in other public areas. Wherever I am and where people are.

5. Are hard workers
I am a hard worker, but I believe this is more due to my cultural background (Chinese) than my highly sensitive being.

6. Are good problem solvers
Yes, I like to solve problems. Especially organisational problems between work and parenthood. I see what needs to be done and I communicate with third-parties to reschedule or ask for help in flip-seconds.

7. Are extremely conscious and compassionate
We, as a family, are extremely conscious when it comes to nutrition and how to interact in a loving and compassionate way with people, our environment and animals. We focus on buying fresh whole foods and ingredients which feed nourishes mind, body and soul.  When we walk on the pavement we pick up trash and take it to the nearest bin. And even the tiniest animals we bring back to nature.

8. Are intuitive, caring and spiritual
I’ve gotten more intuitive after having given birth to my firstborn. My senses were definitely heightened by hormones and tuned in to caring for the baby. When she got older I discovered how intuitive children and us human beings are when we are in the now and connected to our bodies in stead of our minds.

9. Have a strong sense of aesthetic awareness
When it comes to interior design I am more aware than when it comes to how people dress themselves. But when it comes to table ware I just mix everything up. It’s not one set of one brand. Actually this goes for nearly everything. I’m not a brand lover, I like used or self-made. My aesthetic awareness also pops up in restaurants when the food is presented.

10. Respect nature, art and music greatly
I do have respect for all that helps us connect with our core being, our souls. My experience with nature, art and music is that it does just that instantly. Alright, not with all art, but the ones that resonate with my soul or spark my curiosity. In music there are voices which go straight to my soul and I can get emotional of how it stirs in my wound and connects with my soul.

11. Have profound and intense sensations
Yes, with foods. Light, smells, music and touch. And last but not least: when I’m connected to my higher self open to pick up information from energetic fields.

12. Can access important information from the unconscious mind
In my experience I access that information in my dreams and nightmares and travelling, following the pains in my body which make the unconscious mind conscious.

13. Have a depth of understanding and feelings
My deep understanding and curiosity for how people act out of trauma and how this imprisons them has led to my work as a coach & rebirther for highly sensitive people. Since I’m raised within a Chinese family I’ve mapped my emotional world with all the books I’ve read on this topic. There was a strong lack in emotional guidance, therefore I unconsciously sought for emotional guidance in friends with more life experience than I had in my twenties.

14. Are objective and can see the bigger picture
In my day-to-day life I’m very much subjective and life draws me into doing all the practical stuff, juggling between work, parenthood, household and social activities. Though it’s kind of tiring, it keeps me sane. At the back of focusing on all these practicalities I do FEEL the bigger picture. I know why I am here on earth.

Whenever I feel down, sad, angry or stressed I relentlessly start sharing my work on high sensitivity, spreading all I’ve learned to provide a sense of belonging to people who feel lost, shattered and tired of life. These are the times when my mental, physical and emotional energy is super low, but somehow, through the cracks, light enters. This light, this energy, motivates me to FEED the connection. To connect people with each other. We are all one. One energy. That’s my bigger picture!

Also read this article on the “16 Habits of Highly Sensitive People”.

HSP: listen to the stories of colours

The result of what I painted yesterday during a workshop on “Painting as a pedagogic model in Waldorf education”. I refused to do the assignment as it was presented.

The assignment was to use the three primary colours blue, yellow and red to cover the whole sheet of paper. Afterwards we were supposed to turn these colours into new colours by painting another colour on top of it.

I wanted to keep the red and used a bit of yellow to create a kind of orange in the core of red. The teacher used my painting to explain that this deep strong type of red is an expression of anger. (Anger of Mozes, is how he put it, an example used based on the religious stories told to the children)

He also pointed out how I used blue to enhance the red. Why I behaved as I did was because I wanted to listen to what came out of my brush, my soul.

As he told earlier: painting as educated in Waldorf education is to let the colours speak to your soul. Through the colours the soul is able to express itself. What I truly loved was how connected I felt. I didn’t hear the chitchats around me.

For more photo’s on this subject see my instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orchidoflife/

With Com-Passion,
Chungmei Cheng

HSP Coach & Rebirther
My website & lifework: Orchid of Life HSP Coaching & Rebirthing 

Hi dear one, It’s my bday today

Hi dear one, It’s my bday today. I turned 41. I feel super blessed by all the love I’ve received. All bday wishes, physical and digital kisses and hugs. Thank you, you and you, family, friends and soul connections 💚

Do you always know the answer to the question “What do you want for your bday?” Well, I’m still much better at giving than receiving. And somehow I link the question to material stuff. That’s why I need more time to think and feel what I want to receive from whom, but I’ve succeeded 😉😋

Over the years I’ve learned to enjoy surprises. This year my kids spoilt each others suprises unknowingly and unwillingly and that was hilarious. Beautiful pink roses and a handmade card from Amé and @arnoldbalde and Dían finished some stuff for our new home. We will continue to furnish our home. That was one thing I wanted.

On this journey of giving and receiving I’ve noticed that I have less trouble with asking for non-material stuff.

So here it goes, if you would ask me what gift you could give me I would say: “I want you to reflect, give back, compliment and pass on the beauty, kindness and softness/ sensitivity of the people around you. Including all these aspects within you. Day in and day out.”

That’s my soul’s biggest wish and gift to the world. A gift I would like to see passed on to everyone.

With Com-Passion,
Chungmei Cheng

HSP Coach & Rebirther
My website & lifework: Orchid of Life HSP Coaching & Rebirthing 

Depression, panic attacks and not sleeping? Breathe.

Depression. Panic attacks. Not sleeping. Some of the clients I guide struggle with these symptoms.

I’m guiding a highly sensitive lady who has been thinking she is depressed for around 10 years. Off and on she was on medication. She has a degree in clinical psychology, but at the moment working in communication. The human psyche, spirituality and healing has her interest. Especially because she wants to feel better for so long and is now discovering how sensitive she really is.

For the past 4 years she is on her path of healing and is not taking medicine. All her loved ones support her, but they are inclined to regular health care and on her lowest points they would recommend her to start medicine again. Even though she hasn’t full emotional support of her loved ones she had faith and courage to continue this path. I am impressed, because now 25 coaching & rebirthing sessions in I got to know her fears fully. They are scary, dark and heavy.

During her 25th rebirthing session she faced and connected with a severe bodily tension several times. Before connecting she was more aware of the phases she had to go through:

  1. Tension pulled back her head which straigthened her neck
  2. Yawning
  3. And finally connecting with tension which also caused physical pain

She has a very high physical pain threshold. Even though she felt pain she thought she could continue breathing in stage 3 for maybe half an hour longer. She is learning how to cut herself some slack, give in and surrender. Surrender to the pain that she has been holding onto for so long.

Emotionally she has been disconnected from this tension and pain for decades. It stems from her childhood. The only way to release the tension was to make sounds in stead of crying. Her healing process is also showing her to embrace sadness and cry longer than she was used to doing.

After her 25th rebirthing session she wrote me the following:

Client: “You don’t know half how grateful I am to you. You let me experience and feel light again on the deepest layers of my being.”

Client was/ is struggling with the following:

🌿 Fear to such an extent that the mind is always occupied and thinking

🌿 Fear to such an extent that the body is continuous living in a state of stress

🌿 Breathing on a daily basis is superficial

🌿 Not being able to sleep and not sleeping enough hours per night

While she is struggling on a daily basis the amount of willpower she has keeps her working and doing all kinds of courses in personal development. How does she do this? I am convinced it’s her willpower, faith and trust.

What the client said about trust: “These breathing sessions have given me trust that I will get better over time. I am able to sit with the dark cloud, the heaviness and I know it will pass by. Parallel to this I feel lighter, a weight has fallen off my shoulders and there is more room for positive thoughts. I am on the right path.”

Breath with me?

With Com-Passion,
Chungmei Cheng

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Experience positive changes in your life

“Inhale with the motivation that you want to live, that you want to experience positive changes in your life.”

This is what I told a client during his first rebirthing session because he came across moments in his life that he wanted to stop living. The amount of sadness was unbearable. Out of self-protection he thought: when I’m gone I won’t feel any of the sadness I’ve caused. But somewhere deep within he knew this wasn’t true.

And now he is here, in my coaching and rebirthing practice after years of struggeling; nasty divorce including the lives of four children and a series of lawsuits. After having read everything he wanted to know about personal development he had to acknowledge that he needed help, he needed healing.

In front of me was sitting a highly sensitive and highly gifted man. He is in pain. The pain has surfaced during the last 11 years, because of main life events, but was already present in his childhood. The fear of failure is noticable in many areas of his life. He longs for change. Positive changes. He has learned to give love, but never experienced to receive love.

To prepare him for the rebirthing/ breathing session I told him to surrender and not to expect anything. To surrender to the physical expressions of his body. He is a man who mostly lives in his head because of fear, but also because he is naturally curious, a thinker and someone who wants to solve everything by his own. The breathing session would help him to connect his head to his heart.

During his first rebirthing session he felt a tingling sensation in his arms and on his chest. He also experienced a lot of tension in his face to the amount that he couldn’t speak freely. Furthermore there was tension released in his neck after having focused on the thought “I accept myself fully”.

When you focus on the positive and act out of love you will “massage” the pain out of your system.

It was a great first session! Looking forward to the following rebirthing sessions.

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Warm regards,
Chungmei Cheng

Aprende a lidiar con la energía negativa

Las personas altamente sensibles son más propensas a la energía negativa. La energía negativa nos debilita de muchas maneras. De repente nos sentimos borrosos en la cabeza, débiles en las rodillas o nos golpean los calambres estomacales. En la mayoría de las situaciones, también estamos abrumados por la incapacidad de hablar por nosotros mismos. En mi práctica de coaching y renacimiento, he visto pasar a hombres y mujeres que estaban dispuestos a trabajar en esto, señalaron su incapacidad para manejar la energía negativa y querían descubrir de dónde venia esto.

Había un tipo en particular que sufrió hiperventilación después de un arrebato de un cliente. Fue enviado a una casa para arreglar las cosas que su colega no hizo correctamente. El cliente le mostró su decepción, aunque sabía que no era el causante del problema. En el momento en que lo manejó con cuidado, pero la energía llena de decepción y rabia encendida en su camino estuvo girando en su sistema durante días, ¡especialmente en su cabeza!

En su cabeza, fantasearía con escenarios futuros sobre conflictos con su empleador, colegas y clientes.

¿Y qué hacer si está trabajando con un jefe cuyo estado emocional es impredecible y confuso? Las personas altamente sensibles sienten cada cambio en el estado emocional de otras personas. Se sienten alertas cuando alguien entra en una reunión, una bebida o en la tienda de comestibles con un estado emocional que puede describirse como triste, frustrado o simplemente de mal humor. Dependiendo de la situación, tienen ganas de huir o quedarse quietos y esperar el momento adecuado para intervenir. En este caso, cuando se trabaja con un jefe que llega un día súper feliz y al día siguiente, como si la empresa colapsara delante de Sus ojos, ¿qué harías como una persona altamente sensible?

La respuesta a esta pregunta se puede encontrar en el núcleo del “problema”. He escrito un problema entre paréntesis, porque preferiría percibir los “problemas” emocionales / psicológicos como oportunidades para trabajar en el ser emocional de uno. En todas las situaciones anteriores, la energía negativa experimentada se remonta a la infancia de las personas altamente sensibles. Cuando no sabemos cómo lidiar con la energía negativa en situaciones cotidianas de adultos, esto es una señal de que no hemos aprendido a lidiar con diferentes energías negativas en el pasado.

La energía se puede leer como en “emociones”, emociones básicas como la ira y la tristeza.

Podríamos diferenciar estas emociones como decepción, frustración, irritación, luto, odio, angustia y envidia entre muchos más. Estas emociones se consideran negativas y, por lo tanto, me referiré a ellas como tales, pero en mi opinión del desarrollo personal, estas emociones son la puerta de entrada a la libertad emocional.

En la infancia, nuestra relación con nuestros cuidadores influye en la forma en que manejamos las emociones de los demás y de nosotros mismos. Cuando no hemos curado nuestras heridas emocionales, somos torturados consciente o inconscientemente por nuestras reacciones dirigidas por nuestro niño interior herido. El niño interior herido atraerá las experiencias de la vida para crecer emocionalmente. Una persona altamente sensible criada por cuidadores que todavía caminaban con su propio dolor; La ira y la tristeza absorberán automáticamente, estas emociones negativas. No son capaces de experimentar estas emociones separadas de sí mismas. Dependiendo del carácter del niño y la relación con sus cuidadores, se influirá en el desarrollo mental y emocional del niño.

Lo que sucede en la vida adulta es que las personas, cuando están abiertas para el desarrollo personal, comienzan a descubrir la raíz de sus patrones de comportamiento. Ajá, entonces la razón por la que no puedo manejar la decepción es porque he compensado mis inseguridades haciendo el trabajo más sublime que puedo hacer para que mi padre me note. Y caminar con una sensación general de inseguridad acerca de que yo asuma tanta responsabilidad es porque mi madre hizo todo lo posible por mí. Siempre que necesitaba ayuda, ella estaba allí. Quería estar allí, porque sus padres murieron cuando ella era joven. Ella ni siquiera llegó a conocerlos.

He hablado con muchas personas altamente sensibles que viven con las mejores intenciones y haciendo lo mejor que pueden por sus familias, pero con un cuidador que las aleja con una ira inesperada que no tiene nada que ver con ellas, caminan por la vida sintiendo miedo. Solo están paralizados por la ira mal colocada. Y existe este hambre, esta necesidad innata de reconocer quiénes son y este deseo de ser valorado por sus acciones. Valen la pena sentir todas las emociones corriendo por sus venas para que se liberen especialmente de las emociones que pesan.

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HSP: cómo despegarse. 3 Consejos!

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La sesión de hoy con una joven que es altamente sensible me inspiró a compartir los siguientes consejos sobre cómo desengancharse a nivel físico, mental y emocional. Señalé el nivel físico primero, porque esta mujer experimenta esa sensación de estar atrapada a través de su cuerpo. Se siente como si estuviera flotando sobre el suelo, con la cabeza llena, perdiendo la concentración y encontrándose en un entorno social poniéndose nerviosa e insegura. En realidad, fue ella quien me preguntó después de una sesión de coaching y renacimiento: “¿Me puede decir cómo desengancharme cuando la vida me lleve nuevamente a este estado físico incómodo?”

Compartí lo siguiente con ella:

1. llorar

2. Ducharse o bañarse.

3. Siéntate frente a un fuego

Esa sensación de estar atascado proviene de la energía que está girando dentro de su sistema, pero la energía no puede encontrar una salida. Necesitas ayudar a esa energía para salir de tu sistema; tu cabeza, tu cuerpo Esa energía podría ser la tristeza, la ira y el miedo (o una buena combinación) a la que te aferras, porque nunca has aprendido a expresar estas emociones.

Llorar

Bueno, en primer lugar, lo que he aprendido en mi práctica de coaching y renacimiento es que a muchas personas altamente sensibles les resulta difícil llorar. Incluso cuando están solos en casa. Podría ser por vergüenza de ser escuchado o tener que reconocer que algo o alguien te tocó. Podría ser por miedo, porque no sabes qué aparecerá a continuación cuando empieces a llorar. Pánico, histeria, impotencia, soledad. Conozco un hecho interesante sobre el miedo: no es real. (no cuando estás parado frente a alguien que está a punto de golpearte, sino el miedo que tortura la mente)

Incluso cuando piensas que no lloras fácilmente, puede haber momentos en los que te sientas cómodo y lo suficientemente seguro como para hacerlo. Por ejemplo, cuando estás viendo una película que realmente te afecta a ti o una canción, o mientras lees un pasaje de un libro. Quizás tienes un compañero o un amigo querido en el que confías. Cuando te sientas estancado, busca lo que te funcione para que puedas darle un pequeño empujón a esa energía para que abandone tu sistema.

Aparte de las emociones de los demás, la suya propia, la energía de la tierra y los edificios, las personas altamente sensibles son movidas por tantas cosas como la belleza, las artes, la bondad. Siente tus emociones y deja que tu voz sea escuchada. ¡Mantén la energía en movimiento!

Tomar una ducha o un baño

Muchas personas altamente sensibles recogen y absorben diferentes emociones y energías, pero de alguna manera están viviendo sus vidas desde la cabeza; Planificación, organización, pensando en qué hacer a continuación. Residir principalmente en tu cabeza en lugar de en tu cuerpo indica que lo más probable es que te guíe el miedo. Una pregunta que aparece a lo largo de estas líneas es: “¿Qué siento?”

La raíz de este problema se encuentra en lo que han atravesado las personas altamente sensibles al trauma. Una de las dinámicas familiares que podría ser la causa de cuanto preocupado se siente ahora comparado a lo que sienten los demás es la siguiente situación.

Cuando eres un niño necesitas la guía de tus padres para sentir lo que es tuyo y lo que es suyo. Cuando los padres pasan por sus propios problemas y problemas matrimoniales, esto pone un gran peso sobre los hombros del niño más sensible de la familia. Este niño es consciente de la tensión y se levanta para ayudar, guiar a sus padres o hermanas y hermanos. Mientras el niño juega este rol de mediador, no tendrá suficiente espacio para desarrollar su mundo emocional interno. Es decir, siempre están atentos a lo que se necesita hacer en lugar de sentir cómo son heridos por los problemas familiares.

Estar atento es simplemente tener miedo de lo que sigue. ¿Qué pelea, la discusión surgirá? Diariamente, es posible que no sepamos por qué nos sentimos estancados, pero tomar un viaje por el carril de la memoria le dará respuestas. Pero para mantener mi perfil bajo, cuando te sientas atorado, pero no puedes ponerle el dedo, entonces te animo a que te bañes o te duchas. Limpia tu cuerpo energético, te devuelve a tu cuerpo, al presente. Si necesita varias duchas o baños en un día, simplemente hágalo.

Siéntate frente a un fuego

Lo mismo ocurre con sentarse frente a un fuego. El fuego limpia tu cuerpo energético. Además, calma tu mente. Simplemente observa las llamas y sentirás el efecto. Si no tiene un incendio en la casa, podría comprar un montón de velas. Póngalos cerca y deje que estas llamas hagan el trabajo. Si tienes la suerte de tener un jardín o tienes amigos con jardines, puedes comprar un pozo de fuego y hacer un fuego afuera.

Por supuesto, hay muchas otras formas de despegarse: salir de la casa para respirar aire fresco y caminar, escribir, hacer trabajos manuales, deportes, yoga, masajes, manualidades, meditar y simplemente sentarse y respirar. En este blog he presentado “llorar, ducharme o bañarme y sentarme frente a un fuego” porque hasta ahora la gente que guío en mi práctica de coaching estaba muy feliz de recibirlos. Espero estos consejos funcionen para usted también.

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HSP: I no longer am scared of myself

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Coaching & rebirthing experience of one of my clients…

Through my sessions with Chungmei and the guidance she’s offered me, a lot of aspects of myself and my past unfolded, somethings I didn’t know that I was capable of and I was still holding on to. 

It’s hard to describe the feeling you go through when you undergo the ‘rebirthing’ sessions. My experience is that lots of tension surfaced in my body. Sometimes I found a release in letting my voice be heard and other times a tear rolled down my face.

What in my experience made Chungmei different from other therapists is that I felt like she is so comfortable with showing her emotions too, as she is a highly sensitive person as well. This made me feel more understood in an unspoken kind of way. The entire process felt more natural, instead of a ‘by the book’ type of approach. In my mind that is also the way to go about it. Since every person is different, every experience, every trauma, and coping mechanism. 

I used to think that something was wrong with me, my way of handeling life and feelings. Since other people didn’t think something was quite a problem or that I was way more easily emotionally triggered. I thought I just had to toughen up, but was scared that that would mean that I couldn’t stay true to myself. I was afraid I had to change my way of treat people. 

But I can now say that I am still true to what I used to aspire to be. But more living from my own energy and more in control of my emotions. In a way that I accept all I’m feeling and undergoing it. instead of over analysing it mentally with how I am supposed to feel or think. 

I was scared that for the rest of my life thinking of my mother and remembering her would be linked with the immense feeling of not being able to breathe and pain. Chungmei asked me ‘ what if you could remember her in only but pure love’. I didn’t think that was possible. But now from time to time I’m capable of doing so. Not all the time yet, since im not completely there yet, but now I have experienced what she meant by that. 

Chungmei has been such a great attribute to my healing process and self acceptance. Her guidance ignited my inner wisdom and unconditional love on how to balance my emotions. I no longer am scared of myself, nor do I believe I’m too weak because of being more sensitive to stimulus around me. I now see it as a great aspect of myself and can use it better to my own advantage. 

I would recommend this to everyone to at least try it once. Might be the kind of therapy you didn’t know you needed. I hope to continue on this path of self-discovery, with the occasional knock on your door, Chungmei. 😉

Thank you so much for all you have done for me so far.

You are most welcome!

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Rebirthing: how ego’s cunningness gets in the way

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Just finished an intense rebirthing session. There was an enormous breakthrough. Client said: “Within 15 minutes I’m on that air mattras breathing, because if I don’t the tension will accumulate and fear will make me sit on the couch longer, avoiding the confrontation.” And so the client did, even within 5 minutes. Those breakthroughs give me so much energy! I’m freakin’ proud that people are willingly moving/ breathing through their fears and are learning to let go. It’s a huge challenge to let go.

Ego’s cunningness get’s in the way. It shows itself when crossing the legs, making fists or reaching for the head to pull your own hair telling yourself that this feels better. No, it won’t make you feel better when you go against that tension that wants to be expressed by the body. Letting go requires to embrace every physical expression as it comes. Not to twist it or break the flow if it. Just how it comes.

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